Iād like to show you some tweets. Iāve provided a screenshot as they have now been deleted.
The text of these tweets reads
āThe dirty looks you get for parking in a disabled bay š :Dā
āLike thereās not 1000 empty disabled bats and only 1 normal space the other end of the car park ā
After a few people noticed these tweets and tweeted their objections (Six replies) she then tweeted
āThe spam I just got in my feed about parking in a disabled bay is too jokes š š š :Dā
āThese people are protective over their bays looolā
The tweets were then deleted an hour later.
This isnāt a rare occurrence. An awful lot of people think that they should have the right to park in parking bays reserved for disabled people. People likeĀ George Osborne, Nigel FarageĀ andĀ Worcester police. Often people think itās OK to park in a disabled parking bay late at night as though disabled people arenāt allowed out at night, or they think itās OK because theyāre āonly going to be a minuteā or because ātheyāll move if anyone needs itā. Some people just donāt care, and in fact feel so entitled to park where they like that theyĀ issue death threats.
Itās not OK though. Those bays exist for very good reasons. They are for people who struggle to walk and need to park close to the shop because otherwise they may be in pain as a result of walking, or maybe they canāt get that far at all. They are for people with chronic illnesses who will be exhausted after that short walk. They are for people who use wheelchairs and need the marked space around the bay to open their doors enough to get the wheelchair out. They are for people whose joints donāt bend much and who canāt contort themselves to fit through a door that only opens as far as the next car in a standard space. And donāt think that someone in a wheelchair will have no problem with going further - plenty of people cannot self-propel in a wheelchair any further than they can walk because of pain or being prone to dislocations or fractures.
Disabled people need those reserved parking spaces to help them overcome the barriers between them and a normal, equal life. You may be able to walk from the other end of the car park, even if itās a bit far, a bit tiring, and maybe your legs hurt because youāre not used to exercise. For people who qualify for a blue badge, walking from the other end of the car park is a distant dream. If the choice is between park at the other end or not go into the shop, they probably canāt go into the shop.
āIāll only be a minuteā
This is probably the most common excuse. Itās not an excuse though. Donāt do it. In that āminuteā which will probably actually be five or ten minutes, a disabled person may have arrived, been unable to park, had no idea how long you would be and then turned around and gone home. They might not have been able to stop and wait because of traffic. They may well not have the energy or be in too much pain to return very quickly. Ā Or maybe they parked in a standard space much further away, then hurt themselves by trying to walk that much further.
āIāll move if someone needs itā
This seems like a reasonable excuse, especially if waiting in the car. Again, itās not an excuse for a number of reasons. First of all, the person that needs the space might not see you waiting in the car to ask. If the driver is not with the car then the disabled person wonāt know that they would move it, and they probably canāt park to go and find the driver to ask them. Sometimes they could send a bystander to ask them, but that has variable results.
Thereās also the strong possibility of getting verbally or physically attacked just for asking someone to move. This happens, and it happens a lot. How is someone to know whether you will turn out to be nasty or nice?
āThereās loads of spacesā
This excuse tends to happen most at night and itās possibly the least-bad. It is often true that there are lots of spaces at supermarkets. But take a look at how far those spaces are from the door. The distance from shop to space might be twenty metres for the closes one, but it could be a hundred metres or more for the farthest space. Unfortunately the people who use this excuse tend to park in the closest space to the shop and at my local Tesco itās not uncommon for the first ten spaces to be filled with cars with no blue badge on display if I go there at 10pm. (Which I do a lot because my illness messes up my sleeping pattern.) The person using this excuse also has no idea how many people might need to park before they return. If lots turn up, theyāll be parking much further away.
Then thereās the unthinking shops that leave stuff in the disabled parking bays.
@DisabledBay tesco express on two seperateoccasions @UKTesco said theyād do something but it obviously had no effect pic.twitter.com/KHjcWz9qYS
ā Sharon (@sharoot66) August 16, 2013
Or even put more permanent things in those bays.
Dear @BandQ, I am a disabled customer who needs a wide parking space. Guess why your Leyton store frustrates me? pic.twitter.com/H4JergJkac
ā Flash Bristow (@techiebabe) May 4, 2013
This video explains why people need disabled parking bays.
